Its Really Time to Stop Ladies....

Its 2019, last year was supposed to be a huge shift in how woman are treated both by men and other woman and YET  the casual digs are still there especially in how women view/treat other women. Especially when we don't even know the other person. 

Case in point I was scrolling through my Instagram feed this morning and stopped at a post from a fashion blogger for an outfit recreation pic. The outfit was adorable and she pretty much nailed it.. Then I read the caption and thought damn are we still pulling this - it was in regards to the model's size and assumptions on what she might eat, if anything at all.  Sigh, in reality, we as women have not evolved at all, still putting down some unknown woman, making assumptions about what she does or doesn't eat either for a giggle or to make yourself feel better about yourself.

The thing is the blogger is gorgeous in her own right, she didn't need to add that afterthought in for validation, yet there it was. My first thought was how on earth are we going to be treated better and respected more when we can't even treat each and respect each other. Lead by example ladies. It's time to seriously stop putting each other down and treat each other respectfully. We are not going to get anyone to view us the way we want to be if we are acting nasty to each other. We say we deserve better treatment - live it don't just give it lip service.